you want to be more persuasive? Well persuasion is highly effective
communication and in this article I want to share some tips to get
you started at better communication skills.
Considering what I do for a living many people asking me how I got
into doing what it is that I do. I also get even more people curious
as to how they too can learn to be more persuasive. I have studies
various skills and applied them and through many years of experience
I found some of most powerful secrets to communication.
At the end of the day we are all in the business of communication.
We are all communicators. We speak with words in various languages
and sometimes the right words can make all the difference. We also
communicate through actions and our body language can often help or
hinder our message. We interact and the person or persons get a
certain impression about us.
First impressions are very important and powerful and it is much
better to make a very good first impression than to have to work
twice as hard just to win back a neutral
So here are three powerful elements to better communication skills
to help get you started and if you want more information you can
contact me at my site or call my telephone number.
Strive for these three powerful states or skills and you will
greatly improve your life at work and play and in both business and
* 1. Zen like calm : Be more Balanced, Centered and Flexible.
Being able to appreciate and feel grateful for what you have and are
experiencing while still able to seize on opportunities that you
notice. You will notice more opportunities and will be in a much
better place to take advantage of your opportunities and this could
be a good definition for LUCK. You will be prepared for what happens
and will be able to be pro active and MAKE things happen.
In up coming articles I will go into more specifics from various
walks of life yet for now I will just share this quick example to
give you an idea of what I mean.
You wake up and you are calm and centered enough to make wise
decisions using both your mind and heart and feelings. You are pro
active and not reactive or at the mercy of your emotions. You are
able to use both logic and emotions and take the best action
possible for the circumstances you find yourself in at the moment.
You move through your day with this sense of being able to get back
to center when and if anything rattles you or knocks you off
balance. We are living creatures and life is constantly in flow so
we need to be able to ride those waves and adapt and be flexible.
For instance let us say that your boss barks an order at you and
your first response may be to yell back yet this is not the wisest
move and you know it.
It may feel good at the moment and relieve the immediate stress yet
it really just adds even more stress into your life.
So instead, you take a deep breath and calm yourself and tap into
your conscious and logical mind and your subconscious minds to get
the best possible action. You find the best reply and take the steps
to get the job done. ( more and more I hear from clients how their
bosses expect the impossible from them. I share ways to better
manage their stress and help it to motivate them to do their best so
they can be more healthy and successful )
* 2. Become Positively Magnetic: Become someone that people like to
be around. When people like you they tend to treat you better,
whether at work or play.
So it could be in a business or social setting and either way you
will flourish and draw the right kinds of people and opportunities
This goes with the proper attitude. Expect the best and be prepared.
Do your best and BE your BEST SELF.
* 3. Persuasion and Influence: Lead by tapping into your
Subconscious mind and they will follow.
The worst way to persuade is to bully or beg. Neither is very
pleasant or effective and certainly not elegant or powerful.
I prefer to have people feel that it is their idea to do what I ask
them to do. By presenting something in a way that feels good to them
and getting them to feel good by doing this for you they feel good.
This is the most subtle yet powerful tip and takes the most time and
effort to learn. However, the best way to get things done is to get
yourself motivated and be able to motivate others to want to do
things instead of forcing or scaring them into doing things.
To summarize, when you find yourself more easily regaining your
emotional balance and being pro active rather than reactive and when
you become more positive and magnetic that people like you more and
more, and you are able to present things in a way that they really
want to help you then you will be well on your way to much greater
health and success.
by Michael Twomey
Michael Twomey is a Success Coach and
Professional Hypnotist in NYC. He has helped many people to change
their habits, beliefs and improve their lives. He lives with his
beautiful, loving and talented wife, Maggie in Brooklyn.